Find Your Best Fit

Sizing can vary between brands, body shapes, and preferred fit. This guide helps us choose items that feel comfortable and flattering for you. Measurements are used only to curate your order and are kept private.

Your box should fit you, not a label.

Use a soft measuring tape and keep it comfortably snug, not tight. Measure over light clothing or directly against the body for the most useful result.

How to measure

  • Chest: Measure around the fullest part of your chest.
  • Underbust: Measure directly beneath the chest.
  • Waist: Measure around the narrowest natural part of your torso.
  • Hips: Measure around the fullest part of your hips and seat.
  • Torso: Measure from the top of one shoulder, down through the legs, and back to the same shoulder.
  • Inseam: Measure from the upper inner thigh to the ankle.
  • Height and weight: Optional, but useful when choosing between sizes.

Inches and centimeters

Inches × 2.54 = centimeters
Centimeters ÷ 2.54 = inches

Inches Centimeters
28 71.1
30 76.2
32 81.3
34 86.4
36 91.4
38 96.5
40 101.6
42 106.7
44 111.8
46 116.8
48 121.9
50 127.0

Tell us how you like things to fit

  • Close and fitted
  • Comfortable and relaxed
  • Loose and flowing
  • It depends on the item
  • Choose what you think will work best

Measurements tell us where to start. Your comfort tells us how the item should fit.

A useful fit note

There is no universal size chart. We compare your measurements with the sizing information for each individual item rather than relying only on a letter size.

When completing your preferences, tell us anything standard size charts usually get wrong for you, such as shoulder width, torso length, chest fit, preferred coverage, or roomier sizing.

A discreet starting point

Men’s-to-Women’s Size Estimator

Enter the size or measurement you usually wear. These results are approximate starting points. The individual brand chart, fabric stretch, body measurements, and preferred fit always take priority.

Bottoms and panties

Tops, dresses and lingerie

Shoes

Why this is only a starting point

Women’s sizing is not standardized. Shoulder width, torso length, hip shape, coverage, and stretch can all change the best choice. For non-stretch tops or broader shoulders, moving up one size is often more comfortable. We use your questionnaire and each item’s actual chart before choosing anything for your box.

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